こころえ心得kokoroeru
1.

To grasp the intricacies and nuances of a subject, indicating a comprehensive understanding based on experience and reflection.

2.

To acknowledge and accept a situation with full awareness, often implying responsibility or readiness to act accordingly.

3.

To have an established familiarity with a practice or field, such that one is capable of engaging with it effectively and intuitively.

Example:

彼女は夫の心理を心得ている。