togutogu
1.

To enhance the sharpness or smoothness of an object by abrasion, typically involving repeated rubbing against a harder surface.

2.

To cleanse or purify a substance by friction, often involving washing to remove impurities.

3.

To improve the appearance of an item, giving it a polished or refined finish through careful rubbing or treatment.

Example:

彼女はいつも人に対してやいばをといでいます。