せ責seめるmeru
1.
To urge for accountability by highlighting someone's shortcomings or failures, often with the expectation of remorse or recompense.
2.
To pressure someone insistently for a specific action or fulfillment of a promise, often in a demanding manner.
3.
To inflict emotional or physical pain on someone, causing distress as a means of coercion or extraction of information.
4.
To engage in a persistent and focused task or objective, emphasizing concentration and determination.
5.
To train or discipline an animal, particularly a horse, to respond to commands and become accustomed to riding.
Example:
あまり自分を責めないで。