seめるmeru
1.

To urge for accountability by highlighting someone's shortcomings or failures, often with the expectation of remorse or recompense.

2.

To pressure someone insistently for a specific action or fulfillment of a promise, often in a demanding manner.

3.

To inflict emotional or physical pain on someone, causing distress as a means of coercion or extraction of information.

4.

To engage in a persistent and focused task or objective, emphasizing concentration and determination.

5.

To train or discipline an animal, particularly a horse, to respond to commands and become accustomed to riding.

Example:

あまり自分を責めないで。